But now Yang Baoling is still a little out of tune, saying: "Isn't your request a little too direct, it's a little hard to accept.
Xu Jinyang said coldly: "It's fine if you don't want to. There is only one chance like this. If you miss it for a while, it will be gone. You can go."
Although Xu Jinyang is a little too direct now, it is really difficult for people to accept, but he did express his sincerity, he didn't want to waste time, and he went to talk about love or something
His time is very tight, because the stock market crash is approaching, and there are still many things that need to be paved, otherwise, when the time comes, he will lose everything if he accidentally moves.
He didn't want to waste too much time - time on love between men and women.
Originally, the reason why Yang Baoling used his accent was that he didn't want to be too cheap in Xu Jinyang's heart, and acted a little more reserved.
But I didn't expect that Xu Yang's face would turn against her when she was a little reserved.
Men should be like Xu Jinyang, always have a lot of spare tires, so you won't become a licking dog.
If the so-called goddess ignores you, you can punish her immediately instead of satisfying her unreasonable demands.
Those licking dogs are low self-esteem, they are telling girls in subconscious communication that I am not good enough for you.
Because, you are more beautiful than me, you are better than me, you are more attractive than me, you have more suitors than me, you have a better family than me, you have higher education than me...
In short, in a word, it is: you are better than me. So, I want to be nice to you. I want to please you.
Under this underlying logic, your kindness to her will turn into pressure on her. At the same time, people will not remember your kindness, or even respect you.
Because, you have already weakened yourself. In the subconscious communication, the message you convey is: you must lick her, there is no other way, since you are forced to do it, how can you talk about sincerity? How can you talk about respect?
Moreover, there is one more frightening thing———the inner loneliness. Because under this logic, if others are sincere to you, you will not receive it.
Because according to the logic of "who is better X", you will naturally think that the other party treats you well and likes you to please you. Because you are better than her.
Therefore, you will not take the other party's true feelings for you as real.
You will feel that she treats you well because you are awesome! How sad it is!
0…ask for flowers……………
Because we are already very lonely in our hearts! How much we long for pure love, pure emotion, not because I am rich or powerful, so I love me. This is what we crave.
But because of this underlying logic. Even if, in reality, someone is really kind to us, we can't see it. Because of this, I missed it and hurt people's hearts.
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Let's ask ourselves, living today, is there anyone who was really good to us in the past, but we didn't take it seriously?
Instead, once she treats us well, we lose interest in her?
That person who treats us coldly and does nothing for us, but we think about her every day? Pay her, give her things? Lick her? The result?
Rather than a person who licks a dog, his underlying logic is not like this. But: because you are good to me, so, I am good to you.
This relationship is equal, fair, or at least reciprocal.
And, be confident. It can make her respect you spontaneously, remember your kindness, and generate emotions.
This kind of reciprocity is good to her, not flattery!.
